I feel like running should be that way. Since I starting taking running more seriously, I feel like I have a kinship with runners that I come across. It's like we're all a part of the same club and I feel like we should act like we know each other. I'm always excited for the people I see sharing my obsession. I'm proud of them for doing something to be healthier, and hopeful that they've found a love for it like I have. But I think I'm in the minority because as I cross paths with runners and try to offer a greeting, I'm often met with a simple, seemingly annoyed wave off. Do they not know we're both in the club? On the other hand, people out walking are often kind, smiling, and offering greetings of their own. Why can't we be like that?
So, a word to runners:
What's wrong? Why are you so grumpy when you come across other runners?
I figure it could be one of three things...
1. You take this way too seriously. You're trying to bust out a personal best, keep an incredible pace, or prepare for a big race. Okay cool, but settle down. We're engaged in a sport that involves simply putting one foot in front of another. It's not rocket science. Get over yourself.
2. You are self concious about running and feel like anyone who crosses your path is judging you. We're not. I don't care how fast you run or how silly you may look doing it. You're in the club. So don't worry so much and acknowledge your teammates.
3. You're judging me while I'm running. Understandable. I surely look like an idiot.
So, runners. Chill out. Smile, wave, and be an encourager of others. We're all in this together.
