By Our Love

Imam Hassan Selim

April was an interesting month in Mount Pleasant. As a part of the Henry County Ministerial Association, I helped to bring to our community a class for the public trying to learn more about the religion of Islam. This was a challenge. If you joined us for the class, you saw that we all came with different ideas about Islam and even Christianity. We had folks from all different churches in the community, as well as some of other faiths like Judaism and Islam.  The purpose of this class was to help people to learn more about the religion of Islam so that we can better love Muslims we may meet.

It became clear to me during our classes that this was going to be a challenge. There is much that we think we know about other people that can be based on questionable information. Right now, this is especially pertinent as we see the problems in the world caused by groups like ISIS, the Taliban, and Al Qaida; all claiming to do terrible things under the teachings of Islam.

While our class, and especially our visit from an Imam from Cedar Rapids, taught us that these radical groups are inconsistent with the teachings of Islam; what I noticed more than anything is that we Christians can often display a witness that is inconsistent with the teachings of Jesus too.

As I’d look around the classes and hear the questions and comments from Christians in the group, I was saddened at the lack of interest in loving this group of people that we don’t know or understand. For many, the desire to be right and to throw our “rightness” in the face of others trumps any act of love or hospitality. And it is this attitude that I see more and more among American Christianity. Where Jesus always seemed to choose radical hospitality and love towards all the people He encountered, we American believers instead figuratively - and sometimes literally - throw our Bibles at those who disagree with us. And we’re not afraid to loft our challenges at anyone; whether they be Christians with different understandings of theology than us, Muslims, atheists, or anyone else that might challenge our “rightness.”

So can we just stop this?

Of course I believe with all my heart, mind, and strength that God created us, loves us, and sent Jesus to redeem us of our sins. And I fully believe that apart from Him, we cannot experience real life or know the Father. And I believe that there is a reality that if we deny Jesus in this life, He will respect our decision and allow us to continue our separation from Him in the next.

But it sure seems like He was a lot less insecure about all of that than we are. While He taught people about His kingdom, He spent most of His time trying to teach us how to love. Go back and read Matthew 5 and 6 if you don’t remember. Most of the Sermon on the Mount is there challenging our religiosity and pushing us to live out His love on this earth. He was so radical that He told us to love and pray for not only our neighbors, but even our enemies.

Our Interim General Secretary of the ABC/USA met with pastors at a conference a couple of weeks ago and she shared her sorrow at hearing the old song, “They’ll Know We Are Christians By Our Love”. And she feels sorrow because right now, it’s just often not true.

Maybe it’s time we work hard at loving people better. And I don’t mean having positive feelings toward them; but loving others radically and sacrificially. Like Jesus.

Update:
Here's a great example of this struggle. A letter to the editor of our local paper by someone who didn't attend the classes. 

Meme Fights.

I had an interesting exchange on the internet the other day.  I belong to some running communities on Facebook, where we share information, ask questions, and discuss running. It was Easter week and I decided to post a meme (picture with words over it) that paraphrased Micah 6:8. “Act justly, love mercy, walk humbly with your God” where I’d crossed out “walk” and wrote “run”. I figure we can run humbly as well as we can walk, and thought it would be a nice inoffensive post.

I was wrong. Though my post received many likes and some positive comments, one woman shared that she felt it completely inappropriate for a running community. In her words, I was posting “religious propaganda” and she wasn’t afraid to bash it.

Have you ever had this happen? If you’re like me, the blood begins to boil inside you and you think of all the ways you can respond.

Here’s what I wanted to write in response: “Are you kidding me? The very mention of a God is offensive to you? It is so frustrating that we are now living in a world where people - like you - are so intolerant of others’ views that you can’t just ignore and scroll past a mildly religious meme without freaking out about it. And the reality is, it’s true of you too. Even if you don’t claim to believe in a higher power, your life is filled with “gods”. It may be science, or materialism, or yourself, but you’ve got “gods” in your life that you hold up. And this would still be good advice. Get over yourself.”

Thankfully, Jesus left us the Holy Spirit who steps in sometimes and helps us know when to shut up. I needed to shut up that day. Because we as Christians haven’t done a very good job of responding to people not agreeing with us. Instead of being like Jesus and offering grace and understanding to those who won’t offer it to us; we get in an argument and represent Jesus poorly. So instead of reacting, I responded. This is how our interchange went:

She: Seriously? God has to be brought up in a running group now?

Me: Apologies if it’s offensive.

She: Thanks. Yep, a little bit.

Me: Though, if you don’t like the God part, the rest is still not a bad way to live.

She: True. It was the assumption that everyone believes in a god that I didn't like. I do my best to avoid religion, and was surprised to find it on a running page. Might have overreacted due to Easter being my least favourite time of year though. Sorry if so!

Me: No worries. I hope your week is good despite the holiday.

She: Thank you! … I hope you have a good weekend too!

Now, full disclosure, she continued to go off about the post to others via the comments, especially when they stood up for my post. But at least I was stopped from being a bad representative of Christ to her. I have no idea why she doesn’t believe, or why Easter is especially hard for her, but I hope she will remember a Christian who was kind to her despite her intolerance.

I feel like what I see in the world or on the internet are Christians more interested in protecting their turf/rights than offering grace. Maybe we can be reminded that Jesus always chose grace; even as He prayed for forgiveness for those that nailed Him to a cross. Now, I’m definitely not saying to be like me; instead, let’s keep trying to be like Jesus.